Posted August 30th, 2011 by 1stofficer
Some guys are into smelly feet
What are the ultimate top 10 gay passion killers?
This is a tricky one, because we’re all different and what throws a bucket of metaphoric cold water over some of us may excite others! Smelly feet for instance are a big turn on for some gay guys, but others would point them toward the shower.
So, with a big pinch of salt, here are the top 10 gay passion killers:
1 Sleeping over at the parents / boyfriends parents
His elderly Mum’s in the bedroom next door. She might not appreciate the sound of your balls slapping against your boyfriend’s butt whilst he’s moaning loudly. Let’s face it, it aint gonna happen tonight.
2 Bad breath
A universal passion killer. No one likes this. Floss, tongue-scrape, brush and swish. Regularly. NOW you can kiss 
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Posted October 13th, 2010 by outerlimits
Tattooed bad boy
As a gay man I’ve always been visually attracted to guys who might be termed the rough, the bad, and the thugly. Cinema and tv baddies, as long as they physically appealed, held my attention. Fairground guys who rode the Whip, collecting the money, tattooed heavies who lurked on street corners, teenage rebels and bad boys who sailed close to forbidden winds, sexually and emotionally transfixed me, whilst I wanted no part of their suspect and possibly violent lives.
Looking back, they’ve travelled with me, these denizens of darker subcultures, and I still crave for dominant, rougher types, though the kind who look out for me as well. So many times, when a killer or high ranking criminal has been pictured in the papers or the evening news, I’ve thought them fanciable, with a pang of guilt remembering the reality of what they had done to their victims. Read the rest of this entry »
Posted July 2nd, 2010 by outerlimits
Gay spanking is very erotic
It’s time we looked at gay spanking as a popular safe-sex activity, a sexual therapy, and as a particular turn-on. For some, spanking and corporal punishment in general is seen as an unfortunate fetish linked to childhood or schooldays, and while such associations may well play their part, on the whole the gay experience may transform these into a positive force for good.
When viewed as a sexual component of straight as well as gay behaviour, the attraction of spanking requires deeper evaluation. Desmond Morris, famous for books like The Naked Ape and tv series about manwatching and body language, studied zoology before trying to relate animal behaviour to human character traits in the newer field of ethology. Morris links the enjoyment of spanking to its rhythmic similarity to human intercouse, to a like pounding of the flesh. Read the rest of this entry »
Posted September 11th, 2009 by 1stofficer
Barebacking is playing roulette with HIV
In previous articles on gay barebacking we’ve looked at the consequences of becoming infected with HIV today. If you are infected nowadays, and you’re diagnosed promptly, then it is true that you can expect a near normal lifespan [1], and a near normal quality of life [2].
BUT, you still don’t want to become infected with HIV. You’ll have to have a lot of inconvenient check-ups and tests throughout your life. At some point you’ll need to start taking medication, and once you do you’ll have to continue for the rest of your life.
Whilst HIV is far more manageable for guys newly diagnosed today, it still isn’t going to do you any good. You may get some side effects from the drugs you have to take, and you may experience some stigma. It will also affect your sex life as you’ll have a responsibility to not pass the disease on.
So, the best advice is wear a condom to maximise your protection against HIV.
However, in the real world many gay guys still prefer to bareback and that choice should be respected. Read the rest of this entry »
Posted August 31st, 2009 by 1stofficer
It can be hard to resist the temptation to bareback
In our series of posts about barebacking we’ve looked at the consequences of becoming infected with HIV, and the importance of testing often so that if you do become infected with HIV your outlook will be much better.
Today we’re going to take a look at making the personal decision to bareback or not. In a perfect world all gay guys would use condoms, however, we don’t live in a perfect world, and the fact is that a lot of gay guys find condoms a turn off.
This post is written assuming you’re HIV negative. If you’re HIV positive then a site like GMFA will be able to give you more specialised advice. Read the rest of this entry »
