Posted April 17th, 2012 by 1stofficer
The right chemistry is important in our loving relationships
In dating a lot is spoken about the chemistry between partners.
“We just clicked” “It feels right”
Even a big compatability based dating site uses phrases like “really click with” and “truly connect with” on its home page.
The right chemistry in a relationship – whether mental, sexual or spiritual – can be a positive - even electrifying - experience.
However, not all chemistry in a relationship is good. Sometimes the chemistry felt towards a lover can be a result of deep fault lines in our own psyches that we are inadvertently feeding in our relationships.
Are your loving relationships ruled by your past?
“Give me a child until he is seven and I will give you the man” Ignatius Loyola
The experiences in the first formative years of our lives influence our personalities forever. Sometimes imperfect childhoods can leave errors in the way we emotionally respond as adults.
These emotional traps, for want of a better word, can cause sufferers to seek out partners where they live out their negative childhood experiences all over again. Although this is destructive, they can be powerless to the strong romantic chemistry it can create in them.
Here are some examples of psychological flaws that can lead to bad chemistry in love:
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Posted March 30th, 2012 by 1stofficer
This hot Mothership member has a Prince Albert with a curved barbell and a guiche with a captive bead ring
Genital piercing is very popular in gay culture. Whilst most of us will have heard of the Prince Albert, but do you know exactly what it is? And how about the Apadravya, the Ampallang, the Magic Cross and the Frenum ladder? Well we’ve put together a quick guide to male genital piercings.
The piercings covered in this guide are:
Prince Albert - Apadravya - Ampallang - Magic cross - Dydoe - Zephyr - King’s crown - Frenum - Frenum ladder - Havada - Guiche - Guiche ladder
A Prince Albert with a ring
The Prince Albert is the most commonly known genital piercing. It is a single piercing in the underside of the penis from where the shaft meets the glans through to the urethra inside the penis. Then an item of jewellery is inserted into the urethra so that it enters through the pierced hole and comes out through the ‘eye’ at the end of the penis. The jewellery is normally a curved barbell, a captive bead ring, a circular barbell or a prince’s wand.
The Prince Albert can enhance sexual pleasure for the wearer, as well as the recipient as the beads on the jewellery can stimulate the anus and prostate. Read the rest of this entry
Posted March 13th, 2012 by 1stofficer
Stop spammers on Mothership Gay Dating
Unlike many of our competitors Mothership Gay Dating offers 100% free messaging to all members - you can send as many messages as you like without paying to upgrade your membership.
One of the downsides of this is that it makes Mothership attractive to spammers - because they are not limited to sending 10 messages a day, they can copy and paste hundreds of manipulative, insincere messages designed to hook the unwary into a relationship that will eventually result in fraud.
Unfortunately we are having a bit of a deluge from spammers recently, as you may have noticed in your inbox. We do have systems in place to stop spammers, but all protective systems have their blind spots.
However you can help. If you spot a message that looks suspicious, simply hit the ‘REPORT SUSPECTED SPAM’ link in your message window. This lets us know about it. Best of all, if enough people hit the button, Read the rest of this entry
Posted February 18th, 2012 by 1stofficer
Feelings are running high, so get your break up right
An article about how to break up with your boyfriend isn’t exactly inspiring for a gay dating site is it?
However, the hard truth is that sometimes relationships - gay or straight - just don’t work out and the time has come to get out. But how and when do you do this?
Breaking up with a partner can be very hard and may be very painful for you as well as your boyfriend. You’re in for a tough time, so here is some simple advice to help you to get breaking up right when your relationship is wrong. Read the rest of this entry
Posted August 30th, 2011 by 1stofficer
Some guys are into smelly feet
What are the ultimate top 10 gay passion killers?
This is a tricky one, because we’re all different and what throws a bucket of metaphoric cold water over some of us may excite others! Smelly feet for instance are a big turn on for some gay guys, but others would point them toward the shower.
So, with a big pinch of salt, here are the top 10 gay passion killers:
1 Sleeping over at the parents / boyfriends parents
His elderly Mum’s in the bedroom next door. She might not appreciate the sound of your balls slapping against your boyfriend’s butt whilst he’s moaning loudly. Let’s face it, it aint gonna happen tonight.
2 Bad breath
A universal passion killer. No one likes this. Floss, tongue-scrape, brush and swish. Regularly. NOW you can kiss
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