A strap used for corporal punishment
Strapping Young Lads
Strapping or spanking has a big following amongst gay guys, and the fantasy of eager young lads (18+) being strapped, caned or spanked is a turn on for many gay men young and old. In fact, sexual fulfilment through corporal punishment (CP) is drawn from a complex mixture of physical and psychological factors.
The Power of Strapping
Sexual pleasure from CP is largely drawn from the controlled power play between the guys participating. One guy will be playing to his feelings of control and dominance, and the other lad will be enjoying the lack of control and submission to the more powerful man.
It is the fact that he is being punished that is so compelling. He is receiving a strapping because he deserves it, and now he must submit to the degrading punishment administered by the stronger male role. This act of submission, even humilation, is deeply rewarding.
Fantasy of Role Play
Another factor that makes spanking highly erotic is role play. The discipline that underpins CP is found in many clichéd gay scenarios – headmaster’s study, manager’s office, coach’s locker room etc.
The acting out of these scenes takes the participants on a sexual journey, with a beginning, middle and end, in which they can immerse themselves and enjoy the ride. This is pure fantasy time, they are meeting to feed their deepest sexual emotions, and the knowledge of that makes their role play even more intense.
Pain or Pleasure
The arse is a highly sexual area, and the nerve endings in the buttocks of the guy being strapped are heavily stimulated. The pain and heat that he feels strengthens his sexual experience.
Devoted spankee’s talk about the ‘red mist’ - a state of pure diffused pleasure that descends when the pain from the repeated spanking, strapping or caning enhances their sexual state and clouds all external influence – leaving them in a state of immense ecstasy that is heightened by their pain.
Eyes and Ears
Another turn on, especially for the dominant guy, is the display of the other guy’s body during the CP. Often the lad’s arse is displayed bent over provocatively, and if it is bent over the knee (OTK) his erection can be felt on the spanker’s thigh. The guys also engage in dirty talk and discipline-themed chat adding to the fantasy.
Young Lads or Older Guys
CP can work very well for gay men of all ages - often the young lads receive the punishment, and the greater assuredness of the older guys makes them more likely to be dominant.
When you bring all these elements of CP together you’re left with an explosive erotic mix for many hot gay guys. In fact, even if pain and pleasure just don’t go together for you, maybe you can see why so many strapping young lads like strapping young lads!
by David Abrehart
(c) Copyright 2009. All Rights Reserved.
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