by Dominic Davies
A problem that can undermine confidence in gay dating is erectile dysfunction (which is a more neutral term than ‘impotence’). It’s estimated that 1:10 of us will have difficulties with getting or keeping an erection at some point in our lives, and around half of gay men over 40 years old experience difficulties with erections. It’s one of the most common difficulties and if it becomes a regular thing, then it needs to be checked out. Read the rest of this entry
by Dominic Davies
Often premature ejaculation can be a problem for gay men, but it is also appropriate to address the opposite end of this issue, having trouble in reaching orgasm/ejaculation. Read the rest of this entry
by Dominic Davies
When someone tells me they’re cumming to quickly, I guess the first question I would consider is how quick is too quick? For some people this might mean 30 seconds and for others 30 minutes! The answer most sex therapists would adopt is if you feel you have no control over your orgasm and you’re cumming before you’re ready. Read the rest of this entry
Barebacking (unprotected anal sex) is a controversial subject liable to rouse strong feelings among gay men. Many gay guys find it difficult to understand why people might engage in what they see as a suicidal act, and will always use condoms when dating. Read the rest of this entry
by Dominic Davies
Two playful gay men relaxing
Most gay guys enjoy oral sex - some prefer to be the giver, some prefer to receive and many of us love both roles. Some gay guys are often extremely experienced in this area. However, it’s been my experience that some guys could benefit from some tips on how to drive your partner wild and give a brilliant blowjob.
The first and most important tip is to keep your teeth away from the sensitive head of his cock. You can do this by curling your lips over the edge of your teeth, or by ensuring you open wide enough to take the head of his cock inside your mouth. Try not to get so enthusiastic and energetic that you loose control and your teeth graze his cock.
It’s good to vary your style and technique and each guy likes different things. Use your tongue to lick the underside of his cock, and then roll your tongue around the head in a swirling action like a licking lolly or an ice cream. You can also quickly flick the tip with your tongue too. Read the rest of this entry
