by Dominic Davies
Two playful gay men relaxing
Most gay guys enjoy oral sex - some prefer to be the giver, some prefer to receive and many of us love both roles. Some gay guys are often extremely experienced in this area. However, it’s been my experience that some guys could benefit from some tips on how to drive your partner wild and give a brilliant blowjob.
The first and most important tip is to keep your teeth away from the sensitive head of his cock. You can do this by curling your lips over the edge of your teeth, or by ensuring you open wide enough to take the head of his cock inside your mouth. Try not to get so enthusiastic and energetic that you loose control and your teeth graze his cock.
It’s good to vary your style and technique and each guy likes different things. Use your tongue to lick the underside of his cock, and then roll your tongue around the head in a swirling action like a licking lolly or an ice cream. You can also quickly flick the tip with your tongue too.
If he has a foreskin you can put that between your lips and pull it forward and tug gently on it, then slide it back with your mouth and take the cock as far to the back of your mouth as you can manage.
It’s not crucial if you can’t take the whole cock down your throat. Whilst many guys love this and it can feel amazing - the gag reflex can be somewhat difficult to master. The best position for deep throating is for you to have your head tilted back as far as possible - like a sword swallower does. In order for you to be comfortable like this, you can try lying down hanging over the edge of the bed then he stands or kneels in front and slide it in. This gives the widest possible opening and reduces the gag reflex. Breathe through your nose and relax. As I say, deep throat can be good but there are many other ways to excel at oral that if you can’t manage it, don’t worry.
Try different temperatures. Like having an ice cube in your mouth and letting that roll around the head of his cock, or a mouthful of tea. These contrasts can be fun.
Vary the pressure and speed with which you suck. Go faster for a while and keep up the same action and then slow down and start using you tongue. If he’s close to cumming he may prefer you to just keep doing the same action and not keep changing things around as this can distract him from his orgasm. So if YOU want to prolong it, you know to change things frequently! 
Remember the balls and the perineum - the place behind the balls that goes back to his arse. You can lick, and stroke these to good effect. Pushing in the perineum just behind the scrotum can also intensify the feelings of orgasm. Some guys like their ball sack gently tugged or held. Just keep in mind some people have very sensitive balls and so be careful not to squeeze them or hurt them, unless he’s told you it’s OK to.
Surprise your date with a few of these tips - or add some fun to a long term relationship.
© Dominic Davies - Pink Therapy™
