You’ve just had a massive row with your boyfriend and you’re furious with him. You’re blinded by rage, the injustice of his actions and the downright unfairness of it all. Your heart is pumping like mad and you’re tense, upset and hate him. Read the rest of this entry
by Dominic Davies
A problem that can undermine confidence in gay dating is erectile dysfunction (which is a more neutral term than ‘impotence’). It’s estimated that 1:10 of us will have difficulties with getting or keeping an erection at some point in our lives, and around half of gay men over 40 years old experience difficulties with erections. It’s one of the most common difficulties and if it becomes a regular thing, then it needs to be checked out. Read the rest of this entry
by Dominic Davies
Often premature ejaculation can be a problem for gay men, but it is also appropriate to address the opposite end of this issue, having trouble in reaching orgasm/ejaculation. Read the rest of this entry
by Dominic Davies
When someone tells me they’re cumming to quickly, I guess the first question I would consider is how quick is too quick? For some people this might mean 30 seconds and for others 30 minutes! The answer most sex therapists would adopt is if you feel you have no control over your orgasm and you’re cumming before you’re ready. Read the rest of this entry
Barebacking (unprotected anal sex) is a controversial subject liable to rouse strong feelings among gay men. Many gay guys find it difficult to understand why people might engage in what they see as a suicidal act, and will always use condoms when dating. Read the rest of this entry
