Posted August 30th, 2011 by 1stofficer
Some guys are into smelly feet
What are the ultimate top 10 gay passion killers?
This is a tricky one, because we’re all different and what throws a bucket of metaphoric cold water over some of us may excite others! Smelly feet for instance are a big turn on for some gay guys, but others would point them toward the shower.
So, with a big pinch of salt, here are the top 10 gay passion killers:
1 Sleeping over at the parents / boyfriends parents
His elderly Mum’s in the bedroom next door. She might not appreciate the sound of your balls slapping against your boyfriend’s butt whilst he’s moaning loudly. Let’s face it, it aint gonna happen tonight.
2 Bad breath
A universal passion killer. No one likes this. Floss, tongue-scrape, brush and swish. Regularly. NOW you can kiss 
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Posted June 7th, 2011 by 1stofficer
Loving like a man, not a teenager
A teenager from Mothership Gay Dating
It is normal for teenagers to develop intense romantic and sexual relationships. With their hormones cannon-blasting everywhere their relationships with their sexual partners can be powerful and seem all-consuming.
These teenage relationships are a normal part of growing up, and help us come to terms and understand the nature and intensity of loving other people. But what happens if we miss out on our teenage love-life? Well that is what can happen to many gay guys.
A lot of gay men were firmly in the closet when they were teenagers. They were afraid of the consequences of their peers knowing they were gay, and perhaps they weren’t ready to admit to themselves their true sexuality at that age.
Being closeted like this can prevent some gay men from having the teenage relationships that are an important part of growing up. This can present a very destructive attitude to relationships in adulthood, because they are forever living their love-lives like a teenager and not like a man. Read the rest of this entry »
Posted June 2nd, 2011 by outerlimits
A gay new world at every stage of our lives
To be young was once highly prized on the gay scene, but a whole generation has reached maturity since the first performance of the musical ‘Hair’ announced the dawn of a new age of peace, love, and beneficent social revolution. By 2017 in the UK, there will be more of us over 65 than children under 5, for the first time. Where is the gay population heading with its wealth of accumulated experience, and how can we get the best out of this braver, newer society? Read the rest of this entry »
Posted May 6th, 2011 by outerlimits
As a gay man I’ve held a long fascination and attachment to James Hilton’s novel Lost Horizon (first published in 1933), and I want to examine its deeper meaning for me (and for us as gay people), apart from any literary merit it may possess. The book has enjoyed huge popularity over the years, boosted by major film adaptations, but, as far as I know, no one has looked at it in this way until now. Read the rest of this entry »
Posted April 16th, 2011 by 1stofficer
Seeing your ex can rekindle old passions
You’re single and a little lonely. You’re at a party and there across the room you see your ex…and he’s looking fit. You say hello, before long you’re at ease with each other and laughing, and a few hours later you’re in his bed having mind-blowing sex ‘for old time’s sake’.
The next day he calls and you arrange to meet for a coffee. You clearly like each other, fancy each other and are enjoying each other’s company. Should you get back together?
Maybe. Relationships are complicated things, and often there are no right and wrong answers. Assuming you’re both single, there are some questions you can ask yourself when you’re thinking about what to do: Read the rest of this entry »
