Posted June 11th, 2012 by 1stofficer

You can meet the guy of your dreams on gay dating sites
Gay dating sites have revolutionised the lives of gay and bi men in the last 13 years. Where sites like facebook have rewritten the way people socialise and make friends, gay sites like Gaydar and Mothership Gay Dating have pioneered a sexual revolution in gay guys.
In the UK, it started properly with Gaydar who in 1999 introduced the first website where you could see live who was online right now. Gaydar enjoyed explosive growth while gay men quickly caught on to the addictive new way of cruising for casual hook-ups.
Later, sites like Fitlads and Mothership brought a social element to online gay dating, and their communities of like-minded guys could hang out and chat online, as well as cruising for sex, and in many cases with the hope of a more serious loving relationship too. Read the rest of this entry »
Posted June 9th, 2012 by 1stofficer
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Posted April 17th, 2012 by 1stofficer

The right chemistry is important in our loving relationships
In dating a lot is spoken about the chemistry between partners.
“We just clicked” “It feels right”
Even a big compatability based dating site uses phrases like “really click with” and “truly connect with” on its home page.
The right chemistry in a relationship – whether mental, sexual or spiritual – can be a positive - even electrifying - experience.
However, not all chemistry in a relationship is good. Sometimes the chemistry felt towards a lover can be a result of deep fault lines in our own psyches that we are inadvertently feeding in our relationships.
Are your loving relationships ruled by your past?
“Give me a child until he is seven and I will give you the man” Ignatius Loyola
The experiences in the first formative years of our lives influence our personalities forever. Sometimes imperfect childhoods can leave errors in the way we emotionally respond as adults.
These emotional traps, for want of a better word, can cause sufferers to seek out partners where they live out their negative childhood experiences all over again. Although this is destructive, they can be powerless to the strong romantic chemistry it can create in them.
Here are some examples of psychological flaws that can lead to bad chemistry in love:
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Posted March 30th, 2012 by 1stofficer

This hot Mothership member has a Prince Albert with a curved barbell and a guiche with a captive bead ring
Genital piercing is very popular in gay culture. Whilst most of us will have heard of the Prince Albert, but do you know exactly what it is? And how about the Apadravya, the Ampallang, the Magic Cross and the Frenum ladder? Well we’ve put together a quick guide to male genital piercings.
The piercings covered in this guide are:
Prince Albert - Apadravya - Ampallang - Magic cross - Dydoe - Zephyr - King’s crown - Frenum - Frenum ladder - Havada - Guiche - Guiche ladder
Prince Albert

A Prince Albert with a ring
The Prince Albert is the most commonly known genital piercing. It is a single piercing in the underside of the penis from where the shaft meets the glans through to the urethra inside the penis. Then an item of jewellery is inserted into the urethra so that it enters through the pierced hole and comes out through the ‘eye’ at the end of the penis. The jewellery is normally a curved barbell, a captive bead ring, a circular barbell or a prince’s wand.
The Prince Albert can enhance sexual pleasure for the wearer, as well as the recipient as the beads on the jewellery can stimulate the anus and prostate. Read the rest of this entry »
Posted March 13th, 2012 by 1stofficer

Stop spammers on Mothership Gay Dating
Unlike many of our competitors Mothership Gay Dating offers 100% free messaging to all members - you can send as many messages as you like without paying to upgrade your membership.
One of the downsides of this is that it makes Mothership attractive to spammers - because they are not limited to sending 10 messages a day, they can copy and paste hundreds of manipulative, insincere messages designed to hook the unwary into a relationship that will eventually result in fraud.
Unfortunately we are having a bit of a deluge from spammers recently, as you may have noticed in your inbox. We do have systems in place to stop spammers, but all protective systems have their blind spots.
However you can help. If you spot a message that looks suspicious, simply hit the ‘REPORT SUSPECTED SPAM’ link in your message window. This lets us know about it. Best of all, if enough people hit the button, Read the rest of this entry »